July 2012
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Anonymous asked: Hello, I'm 21 years old and pretty much have identified myself as a hetero-demiromantic gray asexual over time. I haven't come out to my friends nor family and I've been ok with it. But after my big bro and mom died, making me an only child in the family, I've gotten pressure from the other people and my dad of when I'll have a boyfriend (and when I'll get kids) and...
caitatonic asked: OKay so I'm getting married in October. We've been together for 6 years. I'm asexual; he's not. He knows I am. Because of our religious beliefs, sex hasn't been an issue until now but with the wedding right around the corner, I know things are going to change. I'm just wondering how to deal with sex and make a compromise that doesn't leave either of us hurt.
la-chica-pelada asked: Do you think it is more common to be asexual and be totally against sex than it is to be okay with sex? I'm asexual, but I wouldn't mind having sex with a close partner. I know I'm asexual and not demisexual because I don't experience sexual attraction.
Anonymous asked: I identify as a panromantic asexual,but unlike most of the asexuals im friends with I am happy to have sex even though I am not sexually attracted to anyone, to me this feels like I'm not "truly asexual" (or so I've been told). Is it okay to still have sex even though I'm asexual?
Anonymous asked: Hi, I have a question: What if I want to have sex with everyone or imagine to have it but don't feel attracted to any them or either like them? I'm starting to be really worried :(
mykingdomforabeard asked: Do you happen to have a handy link to the asexual consent checklist that was going around a week or two ago? I seem to have misplaced it and my attempts to find it haven't been successful.
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Anonymous asked: I have been thinking that I'm asexual for couple of years. I have never felt romantic attraction towards anyone (not to mention sexual). That makes me sound aromantic, but the fact that I feel like I can't love makes me so, so sad. Sometimes I even cry over it. What am I even? I'd love to be in relationship, but seems that I can't fell in love. Is something wrong with me?
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Anonymous asked: While I have no desire to have sex or a romantic relationship, lately I've been extremely & frustratingly touch-starved. I'm a Gen-Xer, so older than most of Tumblr. I lack the resources that younger members might have for finding like-minded people (access to campus groups, an active night-life, etc). Do you have any suggestions for finding other asexuals? The only thing I can think...
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Anonymous asked: Do you think a relationship cab last between a sexual and asexual ?
Anonymous asked: I'm the pandemiromantic pandemisexual from a few weeks back, I just came back to check your answer because tbh I was nervous, I never get good feedback when I mention demiromanticism... But anyways, thank you so much for answering, I've adopted the term Pandemisexual now and I'm hoping it'll help me feel more comfortable and confident about my sexuality when people dismiss it...
Anonymous asked: So um, I have been identifying myself as asexual. But I have read a lot that people who are asexual do still have relationships and kiss and all sorts of things. But I don't crave a relationship at all as well as having absolute no desire for sex. So, am I still asexual even though I don't even desire a relationship?
Anonymous asked: How will I know if I have a 'squish'? I doubt it's a crush, I'm a female hetero-romantic ace and she's female. There's no attraction, I just want to talk to and spend time with her, and I feel jealous when I see her with her husband. I don't know what's happening, she's a teacher (in her twenties and I'm 16 so I don't see it as a massive gap)...
